Jareth McKenzie
Dominant Services for Women
Who is this guy?
Is he a serial killer?
Quick Answer, Jareth McKenzie, and I am not a serial killer.
I have been an active dominant in the Austin scene since 2006. I have had long-term as well as short-term submissives, and all of them are still alive and well.
I have helped coordinate local events, I volunteer time and work to make the community better, and have helped to educate women and safely introduce them to BDSM and kink, but most importantly, I help introduce them to themselves.
I STRONGLY encourage you to reach out to some of the people who have been in the place you are in right now and make sure I am a safe person to play with.
Why do women seek out a Professional Dom?
- Explore kink with a safe and experienced partner
- Try a specific fantasy or new experience
- Give up control for a while
- Rely on someone who is skilled, trustworthy, and available
- Explore kink without the pressure of a ‘relationship’
- Get some much-needed human touch
- Want a safe experience to explore
- Fill in for a missing kink partner, or prepare to find one
Will I feel comfortable and safe with him?
“I feel so safe with him that I want to stretch out of my comfort zone and try new things.” – E
“Jareth crafted scenes that showed me what I wanted and needed which proved my own strength to myself.” – J
How does he make me feel the good stuff?
Women come in all kinds of women shapes. Lots of women have had children and have miracle marks.
Lots of women aren’t in the best shape of their lives, neither am I.
Women usually want to be heard and should be because they have incredibly important things to say.
Women want to feel appreciated. They are amazing individuals.
Women need to be touched. We are living in a touch-deprived society.
Women want to be respected, and they deserve it.
I was raised by women. I’m a good Southern boy in that respect. I was taught that women usually have valuable input, but often are dismissed. My mama showed told me “when you get older, you make sure you let the women in your life know how important they are, and treat them like they are the most important thing in the world.” I listened.
Can he do what I need him to do?
I see kink implements and techniques as a set of tools. Yes, I do flogging, bondage, and the things you may think about ad night. In my opinion, listing out the things I do is like a carpenter saying, “I have a hammer, screwdriver, drill, etc.” It says what tools they have, not what they are able to build with you. You need to know not what equipment I have, but what we can accomplish together
Things I can do that you may not think of as typical dominant services:
- Nurturing touch. I am an expert massage therapist with 20 years of experience.
- Fill in as your dominant after a loss, when you’re between relationships, or while you’re preparing for your first.
- Help explore or expand your experiences.
- Coach, teach, and help you grow.
If you need to know some of the tools I have.
How does this work?
This is a lot of information. I don’t want there to be any surprises.
Before we ever meet for a session:
Everything that we do will be planned together. Nothing will be a surprise. If you change your mind, get overwhelmed, or for any reason don’t want to do something, just say no and it stops.
- It starts with you saying “Yes” to yourself and reaching out to me saying you are interested.
- I will reach back as soon as possible and teach you the basics about Consent and Negotiation. You decide what you want to do, not me.
- We will meet in a safe, public place to talk and probably have a coffee or bite to eat.
- Between our initial meeting and your first session, we will chat or email to plan what you would like included in your session.
First session:
- The first session is usually in my studio in Leander. We can meet at another location if you prefer.
- We progress through whatever activities we have planned. Some activities may involve getting undressed. If you want privacy, I will step out of the room for you to get ready.
- During the session, I will be checking in on how you are feeling during the activities.
- I provide the aftercare that we agreed on before anything started.
Post-session checkup:
- When you are recovered from whatever wonderful state you are in, we will talk about how things went. This gives us both confidence that we are on the same part of the same page.
- I will follow up using the communication path that suits you best. We talk about what you liked, what you want to change (if anything). I take notes about what additions or adjustments need to happen for the next session. Or if you choose, you can just say, “No, Thank You.” I will always be appreciative of letting me be part of your experience.
- If we both feel comfortable, we schedule another session.
I expect you to have questions. Here are the answers to some that have already been asked.