Toolbox
The list below is not exhaustive, but categories and examples in each category of possible activities.
In the carpenter example. When they list out their list of tools and they list Forstner Bit. I didn’t know what that was until I had to use one, then I had to ask a carpenter, “What is a Forstner Bit?” There are lots of things listed and you are not expected to know what all these things are. This is a starter list. It is my job to know what these things are. They are provided as a sample of things I can do.
Pain Play
- Abrasion
- Bastinado
- Biting
- Caning
- Clamps
- Floggers
- Hair pulling
- Kicking
- Paddles
- Riding Crops
- Rubber Bands
- Scratching
- Slapping
- Spanking
- Whips
- Wooden Spoons
- Wrestling
Sensation Play
- Abrasion
- Caressing
- Chemical Play
- Clothes Pins
- Cupping
- Figging
- Fire Play
- Hair Brushing
- Ice Cubes
- Massage
- Hot Oil
- Pumping
- Satin and Silk
- Sensory Deprivation
- Tickling
- Vibrators
- Wax Play
Bondage
- Arm Binders
- Breast Bondage
- Body Bag
- Cages
- Chains
- Positional Collars
- Corsets
- Cuffs
- Gags
- Escaping Bondage
- Straight Jackets
- Gas masks
- Harnesses
- Shibari
Power Exchange
- Mental Bondage
- Predicament Bondage
- 24/7
- Body Modification
- Financial Domination
- Collar
- Ownership
- Crawling
- Sitting at Feet
- Service
- Harem
- Micromanaging
- Obedience
- Orgasm Control
- Rules
- Symbolic Jewelry
Role Play
- Age Play (little, middle, big)
- Animal/Pet Play
- Alien Abduction
- Bimbofication
- Daddy Dom/little girl
- Erotic Dancer
- Medical Play
- Funishment Scenes
- Interrogation
- Maid Service
- Master/slave
- Prison Play
- Religious Roleplay
- Rituals
Humiliation
- Anal Plugs
- Animal Play
- Begging
- Bimbofication
- Body worship
- Degradation
- Physical Examination
- Face Slapping
- Forced Masturbation
- Forced Nudity
- Objectification
- Human Furniture
- Insults
- Slut Training
- Shaving
- Removal of Privacy
- Put on Display
Edge Play
Edge Play covers things that are more intense and dangerous than most BDSM play. For example, normal bondage has its own risks, but inverted suspension is a lot more dangerous. I typically reserve Edge Play for those that I have played with a good bit and know them quite well.
- Age Play (sexual)
- Asphyxiation
- Blackmail Fantasy
- Blood Play
- Branding
- Cold Branding
- Breath Control
- Catheters
- Choking
- Personality Modification
- Fear Play
- Fire Play
- Full Body Beating
- Saline Injections
- Knife Play
- Mind Fucks
- Needle Play
- Temporary Piercing
- Rough Body Play
- Stress Positions
- Take Down Play
- Tazers/Stun Gun
- Urethral Sounding
- Waterboarding
- Urine Consumption
- Ravishment Play
- Consensual Non-Consent/Resistance Play