I’m Jareth McKenzie, BDSM Coach and Dominant in Austin, TX.

Earning 5 degrees in a variety of fields indicates two things, I probably have student debt, and I know a lot about studying.  Kink has been my focus of study for the past 15 years.  I have attended conferences, taken a LOT of classes, and even taught from time to time.  I am taking that experience and offering it to the public as a BDSM coach.

I AM NOT A LICENSED COUNCELOR, I am educated and experieced.

“Education is not the learning of facts but the training of the mind to think” (Albert Einstein).  I have learned from international presenters, educators, authors, professional Dominatrix, Lifestyle Masters, Leatherfolk, people from both sides of the slash, and the vanilla.  I gather and incorporate wisdom, other peoples experience, tools, and techniques into my practice of our craft.

“Experience is what you get when you don’t get what you wanted (Randy Pausch).  As I tell everyone, experience isn’t just the practice in having successful scenes and dynamics, more often, experienced means you have already made those mistakes before, and learned the hard way.  I’m now offering to help others learn.

For a lot of people, taking the first step is often the hardest.  You aren’t alone.  My first successful much was after three attempts.  When I’m scared about something, there are so many ways I can talk myself out of it.   I am hoping to help build that confidence to take the first step, and if you need encouragement for the next few steps, I can be there for those, too.

Services

Lifestyle Coaching

Advice + listening sessions

Video chat or in person 

  • Getting started in BDSM safely
  • Joining the kink community
  • Finding kinky partners
  • Navigating kinky relationships and breakups

BDSM skills training 

In person only

  • Whips
  • Impact play
  • Rope
  • Fire play

Dom/Top sessions

Private BDSM experiences

In person only – consultation required

  • Massage and touch therapy
  • Impact
  • Rope
  • Fire play

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Start with a free 30-minute video call to discuss what you’re looking for, and we’ll figure it out from there.