How will my identity be protected?
Your identity is your business. I have many friends in the kink world that I have no idea what their real name is. The only time I may be exposed to your real name is if you pay by a credit card.
What if I want to stop in the middle of a session?
Then please say something. “This thing is bad pinching” means I will stop and check in with you. If you just need something adjusted, I will fix the problem and we can continue. “I need to stop” means you need everything to stop, then everything stops.
I will be happy to establish a safeword with you, and will respect it. But I also speak plain English. If you need to change something, not do an activity that was planned, or stop all together. That is ok.
Where will sessions take place? What if I want it at my place?
Sessions typically take place in my studio in Leander. However, if you would feel safer or more comfortable in your own space, I am very used to packing a travel bag and going to my clients’ places.
The difference is that there are some pieces of equipment I have in the studio that just will not fit in my car.
What if I have physical or mental health concerns?
This is one of the things you need to be open about. If you have trauma in your past, I need to know, because I need to avoid certain topics or types of play.
One of my main concerns is taking care of you while you are with me, and to do that I need to know as much about you as possible.
Do I have to get naked?
There are some things you have to get naked for, such as wax play where you have wax dripped on you. You probably don’t want wax dripped onto your clothes, it doesn’t come out. f you don’t want to get naked, just don’t pick those things. There are plenty of kinky things you can do with your clothes on. I have done whole body massages with someone completely clothed.
Will there be sex?
Short answer, no.
Being sexual is different for every person. Being touched, even having your hair brushed, or holding hands is considered sexual for some people. Some people count anything that stimulates their brain in a sexual manner as sex.
I have my own boundaries, like I don’t get naked, that I am responsible for defending. I just need to know what yours are so I can respect and defend those as well. What happens is up to you.
How much does a session cost?
The first session is more expensive because there is a lot of set up work that happens before the session ever starts.
The first session is $300. The first session includes a lot of “getting to know you” time.
Follow-up sessions are $250.
Each session lasts between an hour and a half to two hours.
Bonus sessions can be earned when a referral completes their first session.
Legal Statement: Session fees are not payment for, nor do they guarantee any form of sexual contact. “Sexual Contact,” under Texas law, includes any touching of the anus, breast, or any part of the genitals of a person with the intent to arouse or gratify the sexual desire of any person. Session fees do not include any guarantee or payment for sexual intercourse.
I am not offering nor do I agree to receive a fee from another to engage in sexual conduct.
What if I want someone to come along with me?
If their purpose is to for safety and security, then they need to be aware of the type of things we do BEFORE they come.
If they are there to be a couples session, or co-top, any other kind of player, then the session fee will be increased 50%. I will love to teach your partner how to function as your Dominant.
The rules that apply to you will apply to them as well. They will have to go through the introduction process as well.
Can I be your 24/7 live-in slave?
Probably not.
There is a separation and completely different approach to lifestyle (living with me) and professional clients (I see in session).