I already know…the Netflix original series “Bonding” is NOT how the real world works. It is no better than the 50 Shades Series. I already know that. It is fiction. I get it. But….
The premise of the show is that there is a young Dominatrix named Mistress May who is working her way through grad school in psychology. You get a glimpse of her clients which are also a little on the unbelievable side. One guy wants to be peed on (well, I know those exist) and one guy jacks off while watching someone in a penguin suit waddle around the room. There are others that want extreme mummification, breath control by use of a gas mask, degradation, and other forms of fantasy fulfillment. It is what the Dominatrix is for, she is there to provide fantasy fulfillment. Once they are in their normal spaces, these men are normal members of society that work in corporate hell for a living.
Mistress May and her friend/partner Carter go to a bar and run into an old classmate. She is drunk off her ass and finds out what May and Carter have been up to since high school, and, of course, it comes out that May is a Dominatrix. Their friend, Chelsea, tells a story about overcoming a fear of jumping off a cliff in Hawaii with the help of a little girl. Confused about the story, May asks, “What does that have to do with me?” Chelsea made a resolution to continue conquering the things that she is afraid of. She dumps a bag of sex toys out and confesses that she has never had an orgasm. She wants Mistress May, her friend from high school to cheer her on and help her overcome the fears that are associated with not ever having an orgasm.
This is the difference between why women need a Pro Dom for Women, and why men need a Dominatrix. Women still have fantasies and want someone to act them out with. There are women who get off by penguins, but one of the things that women bring is that they have deeper needs. Rarely do you find a guy who hasn’t jerked-off. But, I have heard of LOTS of women who aren’t sure if they have ever had an orgasm or not. There are lots more women who have been victimized sexually and need someone to “hold their hand” as they reconnect to their bodies.
Professional counseling is STRONGLY encouraged. Therapy is great for these people. But they can’t be there while their client does their thing. Professional therapists cannot soothingly touch their clients as they explore themselves. They can’t be there for support while their client is naked and reconnecting with their own bodies and sexuality again. This is something that I can be there for. That is why women need a Pro Dom for Women. That is what I’m here for.